This is more than just a support group—it's a movement towards embracing and celebrating our true potential, together. Join us, and let's make imposter syndrome a thing of the past.

Imposter syndrome is a pervasive feeling of self-doubt that many of us face. It's that nagging thought that you're not good enough, that your successes are just flukes, and soon everyone will see you're not as competent as they thought.

Recently, a friend of mine, who is absolutely brilliant and an inspiration in her field, texted me about a HUGE opportunity she was offered an incredible opportunity. But instead of excitement, her immediate reaction was to decline it. She told me, "I will thank them for the nomination but will politely decline." Why? She felt she didn't deserve it because her business doesn't make "enough money"—a clear sign of imposter syndrome. Here’s someone I see as a total powerhouse, making real changes and inspiring others, yet she doubts her worth because of arbitrary benchmarks like earnings.

This story might sound familiar. Maybe you've been in a similar position, feeling like turning down opportunities because you felt out of place or unworthy. Whether it's hesitating to speak up in a meeting or feeling like an outsider in your professional community, these are moments when imposter syndrome is doing its worst.

We all understand how those moments feel, don't we? We’ve all been there in one way or another. Thinking about it, there's really no difference between the person who wholeheartedly believes in themselves and those who are constantly filled with doubt. The former just doesn't leave room for questioning their worth—they're too busy celebrating it. Perhaps it’s easier, then, to just believe in ourselves. (Honestly, I’m not sure if I’m writing this just for you, or for myself)

Before we go further, remember, you’re not alone in this. There are straightforward steps we can take to fight back against these feelings of self-doubt:

Reach Out for Support

Talking to someone who can offer a fresh perspective is crucial. A mentor, unlike friends or family, can help you see the value you might overlook in yourself and challenge the unfounded beliefs that fuel your self-doubt.

“If you want to change your story, surround yourself with people who do not believe the old one.”

Not saying I’m my friend's mentor but you can bet you a$$ I talked my friend off the ledge. I reminded her of how much she had accomplished and how worthy she was of that award.

Celebrate Every Win

Why not keep a journal of your achievements? Or even better, set up a “Brag Bank” on your computer where you can store screenshots of positive feedback and milestones. This visible record of your accomplishments will serve as a constant reminder of your capabilities.

Use Positive Affirmations

Start each day with affirmations that enhance your self-esteem. Phrases like “I am capable,” “I am deserving,” and “I belong here”. Sure it might feel silly at first but it can dramatically shift your mindset from doubt to confidence.

Share Your Thoughts

Don’t hesitate to discuss your feelings of doubt with a trusted friend, mentor, or therapist. Sharing what you’re going through not only provides relief but also helps you gain invaluable insights and support.

Challenge Negative Thoughts

It’s natural for self-doubt to creep in from time to time. When it does, challenge those negative thoughts. Replace them with positive affirmations and remember your past successes as tangible proof of your abilities.

Keep Learning and Growing

The more you invest in your skills, the more your confidence will naturally develop. Each new piece of knowledge or skill you acquire is a step towards overcoming your doubts.

Imposter syndrome is pervasive, but it doesn’t have to dictate your actions or how you see yourself. By consciously addressing these feelings and adopting practical strategies, you can begin to dismantle the barriers they create.

I am deeply committed to creating a community where women can openly share their insecurities and rediscover their magnificence. This will be a haven where we all uplift each other and evolve into the women and business owners we dream of being. Building this community is not without its challenges—my own imposter syndrome keeps asking, “Why would anyone want to join? What have I really done? Does anyone even like me?”

But I am pushing through these fears because I believe in our collective strength. If you are looking for a place to connect, grow, and be authentic about both your highs and your lows, I invite you to join us.

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